Wearing Easter dresses everywhere was getting a little old.  The girls were in need of alternate outfits, and I had a large piece of pink knit fabric in my "no idea when or where this came from" pile that I'd been itching to use.

What I love most about sewing for my girls is that I can coordinate them yet design for each of their personalities and body types.  It gives me so much joy to think about what would compliment each girl individually, then try to dovetail those designs with an overall concept.

Grecian Ombre Maxi-dress

My oldest is tall - the tallest girl in her 5th grade class!  Putting her in a long maxi-dress that emphasizes her tall, thin figure was just too tempting.  For her, then, the concept was Grecian.  I used a pajama pattern, actually - Simplicity 4767, view A.

 I increased the length and instead of gathering the sleeves in, I cut them a bit shorter, did a tiny rolled hem and left them open - creating a ruffle-like sleeve instead of the puffed peasant sleeve.  I also did a bit of a smocking-like waist instead of making a casing.  By using a thick elastic thread and a narrow zig-zag stitch, I made the first line at the place I wanted the waist; adding more until it was the desired width.

I'll get to the ombre dyeing later, but I also added the embellishment of ombre knit flowers made from the same fabric as the dress.  These are super simple.

Cut flower shapes - they can be pretty messy and random because as they are sewn to the dress, they are gathered and scrunched to give them dimension.  I actually made way too many and couldn't figure out what I didn't like about her dress the first time she wore it.  Then a few of the flowers started falling off due to some bad quality thread and I found that I liked it better!  I took some more off, re-positioned the rest and loved the result.  MORE is not always better!

For a Grecian dress, I designed a Grecian braid.  Anyone interested in a tutorial?

Designer Ruffle Ombre Maxi-dress

Most of the time I end up loving all of the dresses equally but for different reasons, but this time, this dress is my favorite of the three!  The concept behind this dress came from the idea of making the skinniest maxi-dress possible for this tiny pixie-girl.  Instead of a pattern, I used a tshirt of hers which fit the way I wanted as a guide.

Extrapolating the shape of the rest of the skirt from where the shirt ended, I ended up with a v-neck design tight through the waist and flaring slightly through to the floor.



But the true joy is in the ruffles embellishing the front of the dress.

I knew what I wanted to do here when I found this instructional guide among a box of random interesting stuff my grandma gave me years ago and I've been just recently going through a bit at a time.

 Following the instructions, I cut squares in various sizes from the pink fabric, then cut the spirals through to the center.  This made 5 ruffles, all different lengths.

 Ombre dyeing them as well, I sewed them to the dress - taking a tiny seam allowance.  No need to hem the ruffles - the knit fabric shouldn't fray.  The perfectionist in me had a bit of a struggle not making the ruffles symmetrical, but my vision was for an organic look - almost like the ruffles were vines that had grown down the dress - and symmetry would not have served.  Still, it was VERY difficult for me to allow the random design to evolve on its own.  I LOVE, love the result though, so repressing my impulses paid off :)

Butterfly Maxi-dress

Honestly, the intention was to have all three girls in the pink knit fabric.  I ran out.  I realized I would run out and almost stopped making the dresses after the first dress, but then I dug through my random fabric and found this piece of pink and purple butterfly knit.  I didn't love it as well initially, but it did look younger for my cute little Evey, and the pink was an exact match with the other girls', so I threw it into the mix. Seeing the two fabrics together on the floor though hatched a brilliant idea (or maybe more just a crazy idea), of ombre dyeing the pink dresses purple to coordinate even more with the purple and pink butterfly dress.  I'm not sure that it worked, since I never achieved the bright purple I thought I'd get, but I'm still glad I dyed them, and I just love the butterflies on Evey.

Back to the butterfly dress .  For this dress I used Simplicity 5695, and combined views to get the desired result.  I did shorten the sleeve a little to get more of a cap-sleeve.  Then I took a couple of butterflies, backed them with pink knit, and sewed them on through the center of the butterflies as a dimensional appliqué.

Ombre Dyeing
I started off my ombre experiment by following the ombre dyeing instructions on the RIT dye website.  More or less.  I didn't wrap my dresses around a pole, and I didn't dye to the top of the dress - just the bottom.

Plus I kept mine moving a lot more - not wanting a distinct line.  I also tried dyeing the flowers and the ruffles.  It was a fun process and I gathered quite an audience!

 It took longer than I expected, made a bit of a mess (NOTE: Do not hang dyed dresses to dry on vinyl fence or railing - even after they have been rinsed.  Unless they've been thoroughly washed, they still have dye in them and WILL dye ivory vinyl PURPLE!!)

My first dye job was a failure :(  I was so excited by how the dresses looked.  The Grecian dress was finished except for the flowers, the ruffle dress wasn't anywhere near finished, since I had to individually dye each ruffle and the sleeve ruffles before sewing them on, but I could still see how gorgeous they were going to be.  I followed the instructions - rinsed in cold, then in warm, then washed in the washing machine.  All the dye came out.  Almost all the dye. Enough stayed in to make the pink dresses look dirty, like they had been in the mud.  I was SO upset!  I was ready to sew on the ruffles and have the girls wear them to church the next day!  Alas, it was not to be.

But if at first you don't succeed, dye, dye again.  With a second packet of RIT, this time I followed the instructions on the box, boiling the water.  This process wasn't quite so fun.  Working over boiling water was hot and sweaty, especially as I employed dip-dye techniques of keeping the fabric moving almost constantly to avoid lines of dye.  Plus these instructions double the ombre instruction dye time - so it takes twice as long!  But it WORKED!!

Hanging them to dry in a safe place, then washing them according to instructions, I was so excited with the results!  There are distinct lines in a couple of spots, and the purple still is darker, more plum than I initially hoped, but I still think the dresses are elegant!

First Attempt Dyeing Flowers: Wicking

Second Attempt Dyeing Flowers: Tie-Dye

Note on dyeing the flowers and ruffles.  My first attempt used wicking as the ombre concept.  I tried clothespins and dipped the tips of flowers and ruffles in the dye.  Didn't work.  They wicked dye completely saturating and just ended up purple.  Second attempt tried the idea of tie-dye.  I wrapped the centers of the flowers and insides of ruffles in cling-wrap and secured it with rubber bands.  This worked really well!  To emphasize the effect, however, and make it even more dramatic, I mixed a bit of fabric paint with water and brushed the very edges of the flowers and ruffles - letting the paint wick towards the center and leave a more distinct edge.

First days of school sometimes blend into normal life with year-round school.  Track-on, track-off, track-on, track-off... oh, wait! It's a new grade?  Ho hum. Maybe time for a new backpack then? But in this day and age of Pinterest, how can a mom sleep at night with that kind of parental neglect? If I don't have an XL Tshirt printed that says "CLASS OF...." whatever year they're going to graduate to take their picture in every year on the first day, or cute backdrops decorated with their grade in patterns coordinated to their outfits they certainly won't end up with a proper education.  Right?  Not to knock cute traditions - I love seeing what creative minds come up with - but I pick my poison when it comes to where I have energy to put my efforts.

This year I saw this adorable idea on Pinterest.  Go ahead and start laughing now.

SUPER! I grabbed the smarties at the store and then totally forgot... until about ten minutes before we had to leave for school on the first day.  Happily, I had some cute, shiny scrapbook card thingies that were adorable and perfect and I hurriedly scrawled a loving message on each one with a felt-tipped pen.  When I went to tape the Smarties to the card -- SMEAR!  Ink everywhere.  All over my hands, the cards, the smarties.  Fail.  Kids getting curious. Trying to be sneaky and hide what I was doing while also racing the clock, and working on the principal that if the ink smears with dry rubbing, wet rubbing will be like a white-board, I wet a paper towel and wiped as much of the ink off as I could, then grabbed a sharpie marker and tried to trace over the letters, to varied legible success :(

My first day of school Pinterest FAIL!

The pic doesn't show the cute border, but there was one! Really. I did at least do that. Still.  Not pin able.  But that wasn't the point, was it?  (chant that mantra - chant that mantra) The kids still loved it and I learned that I've relaxed a whole lot from my extreme perfectionist days when I would have thrown them away and not sent them at all rather than send such flawed attempts. But I think it's a perfect illustration of what it's like to be a mom in general; we do the best we can and - though it may be, and often is, messy and imperfect - it's full of love and perseverance.

First Day for 6th, 5th & 3rd grades - last week

And this year is THE BIG YEAR for me.  My baby started kindergarten today.  I know it's only half day, so it's not a huge lifestyle adjustment.  But it's the milestone and what it represents that moves me to tears.  It means no more toddlers.  I'm now the mom of big kids.  Babies change overnight into kids once they start school. I've watched it with all my kids, but I've always had a baby to go home and cuddle.  My kids are hilarious about it.  They keep asking me if I'll be bored.  What I'll do while she's at school.  If I'll spend the whole time watching TV.  LOL!!

I have to say I handled the day quite well.  Evey was SO excited!  She picked out a first day of school outfit herself when we went shopping a few days ago, and she also chose some new fingernail polish.  Yesterday we had a mini-spa day.  I trimmed her hair and bangs, she took a bubble bath, and we did a mani-pedi.  Then she insisted I paint my nails the same as hers.  She said that since it's both of our favorite color, we would both have it to "remember" each other by when she was at school.  Whenever she felt nervous

Matching nails so we wouldn't "forget each other" :)

or scared she'd look at her nails and think of me, knowing I had my nails the same.  And what I thought was super cute was that she added that I could look at my nails and not miss her too much because I'd remember to come get her. (Why do they always think we'll forget?  So funny!)


At the school this morning, she was mostly proud her Dad had come.  It was super special to her.  I was kind of just the paparazzi.

  She said that she was more excited than nervous, but she couldn't stop twirling her pigtails, so I think there were some nerves involved.  She didn't tell us to leave, but she didn't cling - just took it all in stride.  And I kept it together, clear until I was alone in the car.  Bawled for a bit, mourning a beautiful phase in my life that I have loved with all my heart.  Then squared my shoulders and reminded myself that at every stage in motherhood I've said to Tysen, "if I could freeze it right here I'd be happy.  I don't want them to get any older or anything to change.  This is just perfect." And then a year later I find myself saying exactly the same thing, having discovered new magic and different joys. There is a bedtime song that is a favorite of my kids, and I found myself singing it in my head after dropping Evey off today.  It's called Evermore, and it's by one of my favorite children's lit authors, Sandra Boynton.

Evermore I will love you, evermore I will stay

Ever right here to hold you, never so far away.

And though I know sometimes you go to find your way alone,

Evermore I will love you. You are ever my own.

It didn't hurt that some fabulously perceptive friends took me and another mom in the same state as myself out to breakfast to sympathize, buoy up and cajole us out of our mope!  Thanks forever to this great first day of Kindergarten support group!!  Love you ladies!!

And this afternoon just happened to be the craziest therapy ever - as Tysen asked me to come help with a station event at one of those super fast go-cart tracks.  I've never driven one before, and as soon as I got over the claustrophobia of the helmet, I turned on some serious speed!  I think I may be addicted.  It blew away my entire roller-coaster of emotions in a rush of endorphins, and completely wiped out every speck of "I'm getting old" tendencies I had been wallowing in.  I may have a teenager now, and my baby may be a big school kid, but I'm still young enough to race go-carts with a rock band :)  What a strange life.